Not So Arranged

‘Coz Compatibility Leads to Chemistry

Let The Sparks Fly

Are you tired of swiping? Are you ready to meet people who are looking for a meaningful relationship? Well, we help you do just that, but instead of merely presenting you with a stack of biodatas or profiles, we find you a match based on your Compatibility Quotient (CQ) and an in-person interview. Our approach is about matching personalities and compatibility, not profiles. No interfering relatives involved here!

READY FOR THE NSA EXPERIENCE?

Our One-of-a-kind Compatibility Quiz can help you get closer to your best match!

HOW DOES IT WORK?

Take The NSA
One-Of-A-Kind Compatibility Quiz

Sign Up For A Membership Plan & We’ll Schedule A
Get-To-Know Session

Receive A Match
Based On Your Compatibility Quotient (CQ)

Go On A Date
With Someone You’re Actually Compatibile With!

WHAT IS NOT SO ARRANGED?

Not So Arranged is all about bridging the much-needed gap between the meaningless high turnover of dating apps (read, hookup apps) and the impersonal touch of marriage apps as well as the actual arranged marriage set up.

What can we say, we love love – chemistry, friendship and shared passions make our world go round!

Get ready to meet a match that you can actually have never-ending conversations with and silences that are not so awkward. Now that’s romance!

WHAT IS THIS

COMPATIBILITY QUOTIENT

We all know that popular dating apps specialise in superficial compatibility and matrimonial platforms don’t really pay heed to compatibility at all – enter NSA.

Our Chief Psychologist (who specialises in relationship therapy and premarital assessment) has spent months creating a customized quiz to help measure the compatibility of individuals to one another. The quiz dives into an About You sesh, gathering information to help us find you some great potential matches.

Your CQ will then help us match your yin to your yang.

Our mission is to help you find your person, someone to match your crazy and complement each other through a fun personality matching based on years of research and experience.

Here's what some of our members are saying about us.
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The date was going great on video and the vibe was good so I asked her if she would like to meet for a drive and she agreed. We ended up grabbing coffee as well. We've already had our second date and, I'm excited to get to know her more.

P.A 29, Lawyer
I had a really good time getting to know her, she was super chilled and I think we were just talking for 3-4 hours. We’ve been texting each other and we’re going to set up another date this weekend.

P.M 40, C.E.O
Can I just say that I'm really enjoying your service. The team is so invested and are always accommodating to chat with me whenever and it's so nice to have that human element rather than it being such a computerised and automated process like everywhere else. I'm really enjoying my experience with NSA.

A.S 38, Operations Head
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** Names have been initialised to maintain our confidentiality norms

What sets us apart?

No swiping,
no window shopping,
no sliding into DM’s

At NSA, you have to apply for membership and go through a thorough vetting process before you’re selected. This ensures, we only have the best and high-quality individuals on our platform

Catering to Indians in India as well as globally

There are higher chances of meeting like-minded people through a specially designed Compatibility Quiz

We aren’t just about biodatas and the cliched matrimonial process. We believe in giving love a chance rather than getting set up by interfering relatives

We believe in taking dating offline ‘coz chemistry happens in person

We’re not for everyone. We’re for educated, employed and single Indians looking for serious love

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Not So Arranged - A Trusted Online Dating Site For People Looking For Serious Relationships.

Whether you look at numerous Indian matchmakers or online dating sites, you’ll definitely realise that none of them focus on finding you someone who compliments your personality. You may receive a match based on profession, city, looks or even height, but how can you even be sure if you’re on the same wavelength as this person? Our mission is to fill in this gap by being the only dating site in India to add a scientific approach. We blend dating behaviour with psychology to find you someone you’re actually compatible with on so many levels.

Take Dating Offline

It can be challenging to find love that lasts when using Indian dating services as well as online matchmakers. In the digital age, everyone’s sliding into each other’s DMs, chatting online and mindlessly swiping through profiles - where’s the magic in that? We’re all for a bit of old-school romance, that’s why there’s no window shopping here. You can’t browse through profiles or biodatas nor receive random messages - you’ll receive a match based on how high your Compatibility Quotient (CQ) is with someone. Only then will you receive a photo of the match as well as details on how and why you matched. We’ll then set up a date for the two of you to let the magic unfold. After all, chemistry happens in person.

Increase Your Chances Of Finding Love

Unlike other dating services and matchmaking sites, we have a copyrighted Compatibility Quiz. Our Chief Psychologist with her years of experience in relationship counselling has spent months deliberating and testing to design a unique quiz that tests for both - compatibility and personality. Because love is so much more than cooking skills and how you look in a few photos - it’s about someone who compliments and accepts your quirks, thought processes and the way you view the world. In short, someone who gets you! How else can you expect to spend the rest of your life with this person?! To put it simply, the Compatibility Quotient won’t make you fall in love with someone, but it will tell you that it would be a good idea if you did!

Quality Matches

What sets us apart from the other best dating sites in India is our compatibility test. We also take into consideration your preferences - we have a number of basic questions in the first part of the quiz to determine things like what city you’re looking for a match in, religion, caste, etc. We then match you based on the compatibility score with these preferences in mind.
You will receive one match at a time, as a lot of thought, research and deliberation has gone into finding you someone to compliment your personality. This is why we encourage you to consider each match carefully, you will have a personal Relationship Manager to talk you through the process, discuss things in detail and answer any questions and doubts. Once you give a go-ahead, the Relationship Manager will set up the date for you and even be available for post-date feedback. We try to go above and beyond what any matchmaker in India does to find quality matches. ‘Coz compatibility leads to chemistry.

A Few Easy Steps To Find The Right Match

  1. Complete our Compatibility Quiz to receive some new learnings about yourself as well as to get quality connections
  2. Pick a membership plan that fits your needs. We’ll then set up a get-to-know-you session - either in person or on video. You will then be notified if your membership is accepted or refunded.
  3. Receive a match on email along with your Compatibility Quotient and details on why and how you matched. Your Relationship Manager will call you to discuss the same.
  4. Go on your date.
  5. Post-date feedback. At this point, it’s also your choice to decide whether you want to continue exploring things with your match or would like to receive another match.

Where to get free dating advice?

Confused on how to have a great video date or just looking for something relatable on the struggles of online dating and finding love in the 21st century. Our blog #TrueStory will have you nodding along to similar experiences people are having and is also a great place for tips and advice on relationships, online dating and matchmaking. From conversation starters to dating etiquette and so much more - you can find it all in one place.